Let’s get this out of the way: you do not need a suitcase full of lace, garters, and complicated straps to show up and feel incredible in a boudoir session. If that’s your thing, you’re in the right place. But if it’s not? You’re still in exactly the right place!

One of the most common messages I get is:
“I want to book… what do I wear to a boudoir session?!”
So let’s break it down.

It’s Not About the Outfit, It’s About the Energy

The sexiest thing you can wear is whatever makes you feel powerful, comfortable, and a little untouchable. That could be:

• Your favorite oversized button-down
• A worn-in band tee and high-waisted panties
• A black bodysuit that hugs in all the right places
• Your partner’s jacket
• Literally… nothing but a sheet

It doesn’t have to be what you think boudoir is “supposed” to look like. We’re not shooting for Pinterest. We’re shooting for YOU.

Don’t Stress the Shopping Spree

Please don’t spend $500 at Savage x Fenty the night before your session. If you want to, I’ll never stop you BUT you do not need to show up with 10 brand-new outfits.

Bring 3–5 options that make you feel:

• Held
• Hot
• Comfortable moving

Mix it up: one simple, one spicy, one sentimental. And yes, I’ll help you narrow them down when you arrive and we’ll curate the vibe together.

What Actually Photographs Well

What looks good in real life isn’t always what reads best on camera. Here’s what tends to pop:

• Solid colors over patterns
• Textures: lace, mesh, ribbed cotton
• Layers: a bralette under a jacket, a thong under a robe
• High-cut panties and bodysuits that elongate your legs

Pro tip: Bring something that feels a little outside your comfort zone. You don’t have to wear it, but 9 times out of 10? That’s the look that makes you say, “gtfoh! I’m hot!” Take a look at our Instagram for some inspiration here

You Don’t Have to Know, You Just Have to Show Up

The truth is, most of my clients show up unsure and leave feeling like they just stepped off a magazine set. You don’t have to be “ready.” You don’t have to know all the poses or wear a specific size.

You just have to say yes.

If you are still asking here thinking, “Okay, cool. But what do I wear to a boudoir session?” I can help you out. During our 30 min Pre-Session Planning call we will take a look at all of your options and I will pull some options from my client closet too which we have for you to use. Our client closet has sizes ranging from XS-5X in a variety of different styles, vibes and colors.

Ready to Feel That Energy?

Let’s take the stress off your plate. If you’re ready to stop overthinking and actually book, I’m here for you.

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Or slide into my DMs and let’s talk about what you’re nervous/excited/curious about.

You’ve waited long enough. Let’s do this!